“If I lift weights, I’ll end up looking like a linebacker.”

“Lifting weights makes women bulky…I’ve seen it.”

“I just want to tone, not put on muscle.”

As much as I try not to let them, statements like those aggravate my ears more than fingernails on a chalkboard, microphone feedback, or Fran Drescher’s laugh. If you don’t want to change your body shape to look and feel better in your clothes, don’t care to raise your metabolism so you burn more calories even while browsing Pinterest, are apathetic about increasing your bone density to help ward off osteoporosis, and would rather ask a guy to move your furniture for you rather than do it yourself, then lifting weights isn’t for you and you won’t hurt my feelings by closing my blog now ;-).

Yesterday afternoon I hosted a radio program (see below) titled “Top 3 Reasons Women Should Lift…and Lift HEAVY!” and had as my guest one of my dearest friends whom I met at the first gym I ever went to in high school. She was my first spin instructor as well as my weight-lifting followed by sushi-consuming buddy for two years! Needless to say, she and I have had this conversation (okay, maybe more like rants!) about women who have an unfortunate fear they’ll “bulk up” the instant they touch a barbell.

Here’s the radio show:

If you don’t have time to listen to the twenty-minute program, allow me to provide a few of the show highlights so you can hit the weights soon without thoughts of sprouting chest hairs and growing Adam’s apples clouding your mind.

Let me start off by explaining why it’s biologically impossible for you as a woman to morph into The Hulk (aside from the fact that The Hulk was exposed to the blast of a test gamma bomb he invented): You simply don’t have the testosterone levels to pack on tons of mass.

Men have higher testosterone levels than women; women have higher estrogen levels than men. Compare testosterone levels in a man to the amount in a woman and you find a large gap. Why? Simply put, women don’t have testicles. The lion’s share of male testosterone comes from the testes. Now, we do produce testosterone, but it comes from our ovaries and adrenal glands in much smaller doses.

Bottom Line: Testosterone is the primary muscle-building hormone in the body. Since women have significantly less of this “bulking bormone,” they cannot put on muscle mass as easily as men.

What about those manly-looking women, you may ask? For the competitive female bodybuilders to look the way they do, they must work out extremely hard and for long hours to build muscle mass. It takes them much longer to attain that look than it does for men. They consume incredible amounts of added calories a day and yes, use anabolic steroids.

Okay, onto the Top 3 Reasons Why YOU Should Lift and Lift HEAVY!:

Reason #1: Raise Your Metabolic Rate

Your metabolism is the amount of energy your body needs to sustain itself. Because muscle requires calories (A.K.A., “energy”) to survive, increasing muscle size and density will increase your metabolism.

Since we work against a high degree of resistance with heavy weights, we create tiny muscular tears throughout the body. We expend a greater number of calories post-workout to repair those tiny tears, thus increasing your overall calorie requirements. Lifting weights will raise your metabolism long after you’re finished. In fact, experts estimate that your metabolism stays elevated for up to fifteen hours after you train![1] Again, this is because lifting strains your body so much that it needs extra time to recover.

Reason #2: Achieve Greater Muscle Definition

The next benefit to lifting heavier weights is that you’ll see greater overall muscle definition. When you lift a light weight lots of times as most women do (No joke, I once spotted a woman doing a 3-pound tricep kick-back with one hand while chatting on her cell phone with the other for a solid two minutes) the muscles are barely challenged. As a result, your muscles won’t feel any need to adapt (grow) since they can easily handle what you throw at them.

Make sure you’re always pushing yourself and taking the weight up to the next level; that’s when you see muscle definition and form improve. If you commit to following a proper diet, heavy weights will make you look and feel beautiful and confident in your own skin, as well as in your favorite pair of skinny jeans or workout tank top.

Reason 3#: Improve Your Functional Strength for Daily Life

The final benefit you achieve by lifting heavier weights is that you improve functional strength capabilities. Since you get MUCH stronger by lifting heavier weights, everyday activities will get much easier over time. You won’t need to call your boyfriend to move a couch or ask your husband to hoist the bag of dog food out of the trunk. Muscularity also means a lower chance of injury if you participate in sports or other activities.

Okay, there you have it! I hope this has inspired you to break up with your preferred cardio machine for a while and make friends with some iron! Let me know if you have any questions or concerns by tweeting or Facebooking me @dianafit4faith!

Stay fit, stay faithful ~<3 Di